Sunday, August 3, 2008

Marry Someone Who Wants To Be Married

The divorce rate of the countries who had legalize this kind of law is very high and their relationships tends to be at risk all the time.

Young couple tends to manipulate,beg or even give an ultimatum to their partner if for some reason they are not ready to tie the knot. Obviously, they are not really willing to marry or even not wanting to be married with their partner. I think this is one of the signs that your marriage will eventually fail in the future.

Marriage is very sacred and I believed that its not only two people who will be affected if the marriage will not work. Think about this, what about your children? I am sure that they are the first one to be affected when your marriage will not worked. That's why we have to make sure that if we want to be married with the one that we love, we have to try our best to worked things out all the time. We have to be patient, kind, loving, forgiving and caring to our partner. We have to make sure that we always communicate with our boyfriend or spouse.It is one way to make your relationship stronger and to make sure that you are always communicating.

In my experience,we have to discuss with my husband on how important marriage is for the two of us. I've known my husband for five years before we even consider on getting married. By that span of time I was able to know that I am really sure about my decision to get married with him and to be with him forever. I have to consider our differences including our culture,the way we were brought up by our parents,on how we think about marriage,our background in life.

I know in my heart that it is truly important to be married with the one that you love and to be married with the person who also wants to be married with you.

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